Learn with a Lawyer - Learn to FORGIVE your EX, your co-parenting relationship is more important.
Learn forgiveness. This is especially true when you must co parent after separation or divorce. Although you hate the other parent and you might have justifiable reasons for why you dislike them. Learning forgiveness sometimes is the best thing you can do to put the past in the past for the best interest of your children. Children pickup on negative emotions such as hate, or anger. Sometimes learning to forgive the other parent is the best thing you can do even if it is a very difficult thing to do. Again, being able to co parent requires constant communication and putting the past in the past, and forgiving is sometimes is the best thing you can do.