Learn with a Lawyer: Accept that the Legal System takes time if you want a positive outcome.
You need to accept that getting good results in a case, is going to take considerable amount of time. Now the legal system is a complicated system, you cannot navigate that system in any quick amount of time and still get a positive result. You have to be prepared from the outset of any case that you are going to have to put in the time, you are going to have to worry about it for awhile. Your case is not going to get resolved quickly if you want to get a good result. It takes time for a lawyer to obtain “discovery”, it takes time for a lawyer to go to court and argue motions, it takes time to prepare for trial. It takes a lot of time to get someone a good result. Now that uncertainty, is often the most difficult thing for a client to have to deal with. That time period in which they have to have an uncertain result, but if you want to get a good result you have to be willing to take the time and really go over your case. This translates into your personal life as well, anything that is worth waiting for takes time. If you want to get a good result you have to take the time.